Dear families,
This last week has been a big week of firsts for me, both professionally and personally.
I have just come back from the athletics track. What a great time the children are having! The weather could not be more perfect.
It’s astounding that even after nearly two and a half years at St Mary’s, I am still experiencing so many firsts, as are our Year 2s!
Yesterday we ran our first GAGS (Get a Good Start) session for our incoming Preps. Another first for me (and them!)
Miss B and Mrs Sims led the children in some singing, dancing and storytelling. It was a lovely introduction for the children and parents to one another and to our school. It was wonderful to see everyone getting to know each other as the children explored the junior playground after our session in the library. It was also a little sobering for our existing Prep parents to watch on as they reminisced of being in their shoes not so long ago.
We are truly blessed to belong to such a beautiful community. One of the things that makes St Mary’s the special place that it is is the long-standing connection with families, across many generations.
I was sent this photo yesterday, shared with permission, of Sharon Jensen (now known as Sharon Kennedy) who started at St Mary’s in 1965. Sharon, all her siblings and her uncle attended St Mary’s and next year her grandson will join us! I'm sure there are many similar stories that exist within our community. Thanks for allowing us to share this, Sharon. If we hadn’t already selected our new uniform, I’d be voting for the return of the beret!
While I write of uniforms, we are weeks away from unveiling our new uniform. Noone’s will soon be dropping off dressed mannequins so we can get tour first peek. Sales are expected to start in December.
Remember that time is running out to purchase existing pieces from our uniform shop at half price.
Over the weekend, in a personal first for my family, my son, 14, attended his first high school party. I know there are countless among us who have endured this first, but there are also many of us who haven’t yet had to encounter this milestone.
There were many mixed feelings as my son has struggled over 2 years of lockdowns to make meaningful connections with his high school peers. We also had to struggle with the realisation that as parents, we need to let go and loosen our hold on our (6 ft) little one. Gone are the days when you organise playdates with people who are well-known to you. We drove him to a house that was unknown to us and left him with children and parents we have never met before.
It has really made me think about the journey our children take towards independence. This is not unlike our own philosophy as teachers. When we plan for learning, we create experiences and tasks that begin with greater teacher input, lots of scaffolding and many chances to learn and experience the task in different forms. As students have greater exposure, we let go a little, offer less support and encourage students to give things a go on their own. Our journey as parents is no different. We prepare our children for the world they are likely to encounter (but who really knows what it will hold for them) and send them off with apprehensive but joyful hearts.
I had a long chat with Ryan about what things will begin to look like for him as he ventures out of the loving cocoon we have created for him. We talked about our values as a family and about what’s important to us. We talked about how others he will encounter in his life may not share our values, but that his values should guide his decisions, and not those of others.
We talked about responsibility for his actions and that while he cannot be responsible for the decisions of others, he can certainly look out for his friends, as we hope they will for him.
Parenting and teaching is not an easy gig, and we don’t always get it right. We can just do our best to work together to help foster our shared values and contribute meaningfully (while we can) to the lives of our children.
I read once that it is our job as parents to make ourselves obsolete. I truly believe this to be accurate. I have spoken to many people about this, with mixed responses. I know many grapple with the concept. I like to explain it this way: We want our children to want us around when they’re old enough, but they shouldn’t need us. If they need us, have we really succeeded in our job as parents?
I also acknowledge, however, that things are not as clear-cut as this, and that there are families in which this scenario is not possible for many reasons, including some families with children who are neurodivergent and may require specialised care or those with physical disabilities.
Ultimately, though, I think we can all agree on the importance of letting our children do for themselves, the things of which they are capable.
Thanks for listening!
Enjoy the weekend and the beautiful weather that’s to come (finally!)
Sonia
If you have concerns about your child in this area, please don't hesitate to contact Marg (Wellbeing Leader) or Cathy (Learning Diversity Leader - csims@smaltona.catholic.edu.au)
We hope you find the information useful.
Marg Masseni
Wellbeing Leader
mmasseni@smaltona.catholic.edu.au
Respect • Responsibility • Resilience • Courage
The Parents and Friends Committee would like to introduce Jennifer Natale who has taken on the role of President.
Jennifer has one child at St Mary’s
Gianluca (5/6 L)
We had some get to know you questions for Jennifer and this was what she shared with us.
What keeps you busy (work, stay at home parent etc)?
Life is always a little hectic on our home front. We have a catering business and I have a passion for Mental Health which is my next business venture. Training Mental Health First Aid and reducing the stigma in our community. Of course there is soccer training, Karate lessons and focusing on my own health that keeps me ‘busy’ too.
What are the things you love to do?
There really is nothing I love more than laughing with my family and friends. We are extremely fortunate and very grateful that we get to do that again. There really isn’t too much that beats sitting around a table enjoying great food and telling stories with the people who mean the most to me in this world.
What’s your connection to Altona?
I grew up in Altona. I have been here since I was three and my dad still lives in our family home in Purnell St. I have seen so many changes and seen Altona grow and develop from the time we used to ride horses down the esplanade to this great town and its developing infrastructure. The best part of it all is that Altona still feels like a country town with its incredible community spirit.
Why did you join the P&F?
I joined P&F because I love being a part of things, especially something that makes a real difference to the students and the school as a whole.
What have you enjoyed about being on the P&F?
This is my 6th year on the committee, and I have enjoyed working alongside old members and getting to know new members each year, the laughs we have at every meeting and the great opportunities I’ve had to organise things like the Mother’s Day and Father’s Day stalls (yes that was me along with other members of the committee, that chose the 6 back scratchers and mugs you have received in the last 6 years!) Most of all, the committee lends itself to being its own friendship group and I know that I have made some lifelong friends here.
Why did you choose St Mary’s as your children’s school?
We believed that the values of a catholic education is what we wanted for our son and we have found it here at St Mary’s. I attended this school and there was something beautiful about carrying on a tradition.
The Parents and Friends Committee would like to introduce Vee Grech, who has taken on the role of Vice President.
Vee has two children at St Mary’s
Isaac (1/2LS) and Levi (Prep B).
We had some get to know you questions for Vee and this was what she shared with us.
What keeps you busy (work, stay at home parent etc)?
When I am not doing school drop off and pickup, I work as a HR Manager for State Government Victoria.
What are the things you love to do?
I love a great cup of coffee and travelling to places like Maldives and Singapore. We have been travelling locally during Covid, so we are really looking forward to New Zealand next year and hopefully Japan for the year after.
In my spare time I like reading, spending time with my family/friends and gaming.
What’s your connection to Altona?
My Hubby Troy grew up in Altona and also attended St Mary's when he was a young boy. Troy loved growing up in the area and we wanted the same upbringing for our kids!
Why did you join the P&F?
I joined P&F because I wanted to be involved with school activities.
What have you enjoyed about being on the P&F?
I have really enjoyed meeting other mums and the new friendships. It's also nice being part of the committee that contributes to the school.
Why did you choose St Mary’s as your children’s school?
We would also like to thank Mancini Real Estate for their continuous support to St Mary's Altona